infact, what u wrote is nothing but the truth. some of the factors
highlighted is working against me in my relationship with ladies.

yes,honestly i njoyed this article of yours,and i will appreciate it if i am given updates on related topics from time to time.
So when u talked of lacking of purpose,i quite agree with that so many women lack purpose,u have to b optimistic,don't expect every relationship u go into to last.don't be self centered,and don't expect much from a relationship which u can not predict the outcome.talk,talk,talk,doesn't mean u must become a naggying vessel.you can not trust somebody u don't love,its not just possible.u must have some good mental alertness.once u have all these ofcourse u will enjoy ur relationship,either friendship or marriage.

This article is quite informative; a lot of things that will help a relationship. Sounds really nice but i just wonder how Practiceable these truths are. Yes, the weakling mentality, that i think a lot women are guilty of. However, it is no justification for assault. If ur wife is getting on ur nerves by nagging you; slapping her is not a solution. That may the beginning, but sure not the end of him slapping her.
All your points are valid but how acceptable are they to the menfolk.
Guys are generally evasive and commitmentphobic. A lady who is outspoken and assertive about how she feels may be regarded as 'clingy and needy'.
It beats my imagination on how to commit to a relationship without commiting to the subject of the relationship.
How long can one commit to a relationship with an irresponsible, pathological liar?
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Anyway, thanks for the suggestions on how we can make our relationships better.

In your point about the weakling mentality, you seem to be hinting that your female friend deserved to be slapped by her husband. I sincerely hope that I have misunderstood and that you are not advocating that violence (against either gender) is ever acceptable in a relationship.

u had a nice write up there
its not easy 4 a woman 2 open up 2 a guy like dat,guys takes we girls 4 a fool,even if u ask him if he really wanta 2 marry u, he might run away 4rm u,so why not 4get about dat, if he's urs it gonna be urs.

honestly i do not not know that this page is as fantastic as this untill visited.God bless

@ Jane

Thats a very nice one....

If you want your relationship to work as a lady,look at your weaknesses and try to correct them. Then you can now look at your guy's strength not his weaknesses. Someone once said that «a deaf husband and a dumb wife make a good home».This does not mean you should be dumb but talk less, nag less and all those things that would annoy him keep off from them.And the man should be deaf to many things i.e ignore irrelevant issues.

@ Angela

it is not about what you like but what the solution is