As a guy,ve learnt something i cam imbibe to my girlfriend.

Reavealing & Inspiring

Dipo, u definitely have made points in this your write up and I ask God to always give you the wisdom to write and educate us more.
But, most times, men also enter a relationship with a wrong intention. they do just for the fun of it. Ive seen a man who kept raising his voice to a girl to come spend the nite in his house just in the form of his «girlfriend» knowing his house. Again, a contact in his phone book with «Uche Luv» and for decades, he refused to explain to his girlfriend(still new) who the uche is.He was dumb and decided to create a distance bw he and the new girlfriend. Now, tell me is it any fault of the girl to ask? or to also mind her biz?
Also, ive seen a scenerio where a friends(married man and single girl) grew to be good friends and cos of their decent and open rship, the guy fell so much in love with the girl and has proposed to her to be his 2nd wife. this he made as a statement, «I really want you in my life. you are a rare gem». the girl in the open friendly plantonic rship, she was so committed cos he is naturally a nice individual.
Dipo, things about love is so complicated that only God will forever direct us. Amen

What of a situation whereby your guy does not care a bit about you? pls defferentiat love and infatuation for me, does love at the first sight exist?

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Dipo why dont you add more of «THE LOVE WANTINTIN THINGY» in your write ups.
This seems to be a thing of interest...lol

Back to topic, the self centered thingy is true o, about 90% of ladies are so guilty jare... if only we can stop the constant complaint and nagging and understand clearly that our happiness and fulfilment can never be with a certain guy...

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the story is very interesting and all u said it's true. Most ladies of now and days enta into relationship justbecos of wat they can get and not wat they can give. Not having at the back of their mind that relationship is like a bank account dat u can just withdrawing without puting money there. But again to be sincere with oursef again Nigerian guys are not ready 4 commitment

I like this writeup of urs and to be frank with u it is what is happening in our society especially NIGERIA. most ladies enter into a relationship for thier own gains alone not considering that of the other party and I BELIEVE HAD THEY PUT Theirselves in the MAN'S shoes would they still have reason the way they did right from the very onset?

Ur rite but i dont support a man beating a woman no matter what she does. Remember a man shld have self control. A man with out self control is like a city
with out walls anything goes

@Yetty
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