Comments on: What’s Love Got to Do with it? http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/ Empowering Nigerians Financially. Sat, 11 Feb 2012 00:48:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: funmmy http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4704 funmmy Fri, 01 Dec 2006 16:59:00 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-4704 Hi, i must say that i find ur articles very intresting, educative and inspiring.more power to ur elbow Hi, i must say that i find ur articles very intresting, educative and inspiring.more power to ur elbow

]]> By: Anna http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4686 Anna Thu, 30 Nov 2006 12:01:02 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-4686 I felt for the lady concern because 7 years is not 7 months. But I leave one word of encouragement to her, "a broken relationship is better to a broken marriage". I pray that God will help her to understand this. I felt for the lady concern because 7 years is not 7 months. But I leave one word of encouragement to her, “a broken relationship is better to a broken marriage”. I pray that God will help her to understand this.

]]> By: Angela http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-886 Angela Mon, 16 Oct 2006 15:13:13 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-886 Case closed on that then...@Dipo Case closed on that then…@Dipo

]]> By: Dipo Akin Tepede http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-884 Dipo Akin Tepede Mon, 16 Oct 2006 15:04:49 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-884 @ Angela I strongly recommend a personal relationship with God! @ Angela

I strongly recommend a personal relationship with God!

]]> By: Angela http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-881 Angela Mon, 16 Oct 2006 14:59:46 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-881 @Dipo You are rigth about all that....but what can she do? The only person you have any power over is YOURSELF!! ....since he has broken the trust between the two the lady one one choice as any strong woman should do,that has not been "conditioned" is to MOVE ON..... OR what do u say she does?@Dipo @Dipo

You are rigth about all that….but what can she do?

The only person you have any power over is YOURSELF!!

….since he has broken the trust between the two the lady one one choice as any strong woman should do,that has not been “conditioned” is to MOVE ON…..

OR what do u say she does?@Dipo

]]> By: Dipo Akin Tepede http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-848 Dipo Akin Tepede Fri, 13 Oct 2006 07:19:30 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-848 @ Angela I really appreciate your comments. But, how did you know her heart is not in it? She is as good as married to the guy. Just because she does not have a ring in her finger does not makes a difference. When a man commits to a lady, heaven has witnessed it. Just because I did not sign a legal document or say my oath in front of a priest, you think it makes a difference. Thats where the issue lie; its called perspective. Lets call a spade a spade; the guy is undergoing a perspective and a definition of love issue. @ Bellanaija Wow, its good to have your comment; you know I pilfered the story from your site (lol). Anyway, thank you very much for the compliments. @ Angela

I really appreciate your comments.

But, how did you know her heart is not in it?

She is as good as married to the guy. Just because she does not have a ring in her finger does not makes a difference. When a man commits to a lady, heaven has witnessed it. Just because I did not sign a legal document or say my oath in front of a priest, you think it makes a difference. Thats where the issue lie; its called perspective.

Lets call a spade a spade; the guy is undergoing a perspective and a definition of love issue.

@ Bellanaija

Wow, its good to have your comment; you know I pilfered the story from your site (lol).

Anyway, thank you very much for the compliments.

]]> By: Angela http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-837 Angela Thu, 12 Oct 2006 20:55:38 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-837 Like u said I am married I married you would expect commitment. you have to understand this guy had not made the finally commitment...he has promised to marry( understand I am not say this is rigth) but the best of both evil....What do u want the girl in Nigeria to do?? still marry the guy??.....No way a man that could not protect himself in less than a year?...He could not make male friends?? Please my dear! She should be happy he did not marry when his heart and mind was not in it. I still stand will that opinion. Like u said I am married
I married you would expect commitment. you have to understand this guy had not made the finally commitment…he has promised to marry( understand I am not say this is rigth) but the best of both evil….What do u want the girl in Nigeria to do?? still marry the guy??…..No way a man that could not protect himself in less than a year?…He could not make male friends??
Please my dear! She should be happy he did not marry when his heart and mind was not in it.

I still stand will that opinion.

]]> By: bellanaija http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-835 bellanaija Thu, 12 Oct 2006 19:52:08 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-835 Thanks Dipo, This issue really bugged be honestly because Nigerian guys have decided to make this kind of behaviour a habit.... I got further details on this issue and from all indications, this man, though he is nearly 30 is immature in the arena of relationships and is def not ready for marriage. I will do a follow-up soon. Cheers Dipo...awww ur wife and child are really cute Thanks Dipo,
This issue really bugged be honestly because Nigerian guys have decided to make this kind of behaviour a habit….
I got further details on this issue and from all indications, this man, though he is nearly 30 is immature in the arena of relationships and is def not ready for marriage.
I will do a follow-up soon.

Cheers Dipo…awww ur wife and child are really cute

]]> By: Dipo Akin Tepede http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-833 Dipo Akin Tepede Thu, 12 Oct 2006 15:04:35 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-833 @ Angela You make me understand you are married for 11 years; are you making me understand that if your husband travels out to a place that expands his horizon and goes with another lady. You will actually be happy it did not happen 30years down the line? @ Angela

You make me understand you are married for 11 years; are you making me understand that if your husband travels out to a place that expands his horizon and goes with another lady. You will actually be happy it did not happen 30years down the line?

]]> By: Angela http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-829 Angela Thu, 12 Oct 2006 12:56:10 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-829 Hi I would like to add..I know it sounds really bad after 7yrs of a relationship and eveb PROMISE to marry,If his feelings are stronger with the Boston lady...I would say he shoul tel down the 9ja Lady and move on....you do not marry out of loyalty or pity! If he has no intention of livin in 9ja...one would say his horizon has changed or expanded and he want so has his feeling... I know it would be hard for the 9ja lady but I would say to her ...be happy now that you did not marry him only for him to make her misarable the rest of your life. Hi

I would like to add..I know it sounds really bad after 7yrs of a relationship and eveb PROMISE to marry,If his feelings are stronger with the Boston lady…I would say he shoul tel down the 9ja Lady and move on….you do not marry out of loyalty or pity!

If he has no intention of livin in 9ja…one would say his horizon has changed or expanded and he want so has his feeling…

I know it would be hard for the 9ja lady but I would say to her …be happy now that you did not marry him only for him to make her misarable the rest of your life.

]]> By: the Life of a stranger called me http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-817 the Life of a stranger called me Tue, 10 Oct 2006 14:35:47 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-817 Yep its me again. I have had to trall through your site. I see a picture where you describe your wife as your life and you baby girl. awwww. You dont need to post her again. I see her now. I am now finally signing off. I dont tire for you. Yep its me again. I have had to trall through your site. I see a picture where you describe your wife as your life and you baby girl. awwww.
You dont need to post her again. I see her now.
I am now finally signing off.

I dont tire for you.

]]> By: the Life of a stranger called me http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-816 the Life of a stranger called me Tue, 10 Oct 2006 14:29:49 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-816 Dont make me curse you out. You are making me not ever wanting to come and post on your site. I cant believe you. So thats how you kill people softly. Its a lie it work for me. Im glad i have put positive stuff online. Imagine if it were secrets thats how oga dipo would have jusrt burst it. Serious na waahhhh oooo. You couldn’t resist huh. Ok uve bitten more than u can chew. Anyways where is the picture of your wife nooooowwwww. Dont make me curse you out. You are making me not ever wanting to come and post on your site. I cant believe you.
So thats how you kill people softly. Its a lie it work for me. Im glad i have put positive stuff online. Imagine if it were secrets thats how oga dipo would have jusrt burst it.

Serious na waahhhh oooo. You couldn’t resist huh. Ok uve bitten more than u can chew.

Anyways where is the picture of your wife nooooowwwww.

]]> By: the Life of a stranger called me http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-814 the Life of a stranger called me Tue, 10 Oct 2006 14:16:33 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-814 Dont make me curse you out. You are making me not ever wanting to come and post on your site. I cant believe you. So thats how you kill people softly. Its a lie it work for me. Im glad i have put positive stuff online. Imagine if it were secrets thats how oga dipo would have jusrt burst it. Serious na waahhhh oooo. You couldn't resist huh. Ok uve bitten more than u can chew. Anyways where is the picture of your wife nooooowwwww. Dont make me curse you out. You are making me not ever wanting to come and post on your site. I cant believe you.
So thats how you kill people softly. Its a lie it work for me. Im glad i have put positive stuff online. Imagine if it were secrets thats how oga dipo would have jusrt burst it.

Serious na waahhhh oooo. You couldn’t resist huh. Ok uve bitten more than u can chew.

Anyways where is the picture of your wife nooooowwwww.

]]> By: the Life of a stranger called me http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-813 the Life of a stranger called me Tue, 10 Oct 2006 14:07:11 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-813 So dipo - this is how u burst identity. OK next time. At least my picture is not online. You eeh..any ways we will see.. So dipo – this is how u burst identity. OK next time. At least my picture is not online.
You eeh..any ways we will see..

]]> By: uchenna http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-812 uchenna Tue, 10 Oct 2006 12:21:05 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2006/10/09/what%e2%80%99s-love-got-to-do-with-it/#comment-812 love again!this is one issue that will definitely put people on their toes and on different plat forms,but i love it.well from my own perspective this guy and the chic in naija r more or less companions now,there are feelings quite alright but maybe he has being trying to break away for a long time cos i dont see the reason why he will travel for barely one yr and fall for another chic so hard, if he really feels good about the naija chic. There is one bad thing that guys do .why would you go and meet a chic's parents and then mess up after raising her hopes and making her stick to you bcos you want to be sure there is some here for you even when you r so many miles away having cheating. This guy has definitely made her psychologically unbalanced (1)she wil find it difficult to trust love,fall in love and love men.(2)she will forever ask herself what she really did to deserve this treatment (3)it will take time to restore her selfesteem. Well left for me if im the naija chic i wil definitely move on with my life ,i know it is not easy, not knowing any other guy for 7 years but this world is not a fair place and definitely NOT for the weak hearted.let him enjoy with his boston "akata". love again!this is one issue that will definitely put people on their toes and on different plat forms,but i love it.well from my own perspective this guy and the chic in naija r more or less companions now,there are feelings quite alright but maybe he has being trying to break away for a long time cos i dont see the reason why he will travel for barely one yr and fall for another chic so hard, if he really feels good about the naija chic.
There is one bad thing that guys do .why would you go and meet a chic’s parents and then mess up after raising her hopes and making her stick to you bcos you want to be sure there is some here for you even when you r so many miles away having cheating.
This guy has definitely made her psychologically unbalanced (1)she wil find it difficult to trust love,fall in love and love men.(2)she will forever ask herself what she really did to deserve this treatment (3)it will take time to restore her selfesteem.
Well left for me if im the naija chic i wil definitely move on with my life ,i know it is not easy, not knowing any other guy for 7 years but this world is not a fair place and definitely NOT for the weak hearted.let him enjoy with his boston “akata”.

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