Comments on: Mrs. Battered needs ur help!

By: Loads

Loads — Fri, 25 May 2007 15:59:49 +0000

Pray and trust in God almighty he will never disappoint you

By: Genesis

Genesis — Fri, 18 May 2007 10:16:30 +0000

My dear sister this is really sad how can a guy that confesses love to you turn around to beat the same person.Anyway just like others have advised you got to pray ernestlyif you want to see change in your marriage.There is nothing prayers can not do.R/mber Elijah in the bible how he prayed for raining not to fall for 3 and a half year thats what you are going to do PRAY PRAY PRAY PRAY,dont see it as work instead you would even get changed in the process dont stop praying also be patience with him.Like the yoruba,s would say “suru ni oko obirin”.

Cheer up

By: Biddy

Biddy — Fri, 11 May 2007 14:22:20 +0000

Dear Mrs Battered!
i am happy, you know you are in this for life! as Bebe said, you knew about his temper and probably thot you could cope with it in marriage but now you know you are not the Holy Spirit!AS ONLY THE HOLY SPIRIT CAN CHANGE A MAN. When i counsel singles, i tell them, when you see a trait in a man that is destructive dont say I do! UNTIL YOU HAVE DEALT with it in prayers and you have the conviction to go ahead, most times we see all the wrong signs in a relationship and yet go headlong into it and later start crying for help!sisters, lets learn to work with our hearts and heads!
As a Christian, Divorce is not permitted, but as a person that has worked with abused women before, sometimes especially after all the prayers, its better to seek Christian marriage counsellors and if the beatings get too much, run for dear life before you get killed!no body prays for that to happen but it has happened before. So please bear this and ask God as everyone has adviced to help you while praying for wisdom to carry the cross you have laid on yourself!A wise woman builds up her home but a foolish one tears it down!it is WELL!

By: Bebe

Bebe — Tue, 08 May 2007 13:42:44 +0000

I’m sorry I’ll have to be a little blunt. As much as I emphatise with you and do not pray to find myself in your shoes, you left it too late to leave meaning you have work to do on your knees. I’m glad you didn’t say he was pretending when you were dating, you knew fully well and probably thought you could live with it and that you’ll have to do. You pronounced your vows in the presence of God and men so there is no going back about it. All the same, I want to encourage you that even if you made a mistake, the Lord can always bring something good out of every situation. I think you need to pray seriously about your husband’s temper, read books like The power of a praying wife, encourage yourself, go for counselling if possible. I’ve seen God deal with seemingly impossible situations and I’m positive he’s going to help you but you need to go to Him.
I wish you the very best and sincerely pray that you will live to enjoy your marriage

By: Londoncoool

Londoncoool — Mon, 07 May 2007 09:20:21 +0000

Pray, pray and pray…then relax and see whta the Lord will do for you.

By: Tee

Tee — Sun, 06 May 2007 11:53:41 +0000

Firstly, I’ll like to say temptations and trials wud surely come, but God has promised not to test us with that which is greater than we are.
The fundamental thing to like some people have said is to pray – but be sure of what you are praying for and about. The road is surely not as rough as it is, but one thing u need is a controlled tongue, u can achieve dis with the help of the holy spirit. Spend qualitative time in teh word and praying,allow the Holy Spirit to intercede on ur behalf.

Lastly, do all ur rights at home, food, clothing, (the bed), make sure he lacks nothing.U’ll be amazed at the result and don’t go telling stories to families and friend. It’s inbetween the two of u

By: temi

temi — Fri, 04 May 2007 16:25:50 +0000

The only solution to this is prayer. Don’t even think of leaving, remember, you both vowed “for better for worse”.God surely makes a way where there seems to be no way.Also, don’t try to be harsh at him, i believe he will change.Marraige is not a bed of roses, difficult times comes but don’t last forever

By: jane

jane — Fri, 04 May 2007 11:50:29 +0000

The best way to solve a problem is to face it and not run away. All you have to do is go on your knees, pray and fast and I see God intervening in your situation. I have seen men that left home for years to seek solace in the arms of another woman. Their wives claim back their husbands from the strange women through prayers. People change because of several reasons. 3 months into the marriage he started becoming hostile and he resigned without your consent knowing fully well that you are one body and not two. You’ve got to pray. You can’t afford to loose your marriage because he’s going to snap at you until he gets a better job. Please don’t reply any harsh word he speaks to you, show him love and you’ll see a change.

By: Tboy

Tboy — Thu, 03 May 2007 20:35:15 +0000

You just have to be patient my sister. Your husband has realized that he made the wrong decision and he is venting his anger on you. I’m sur ethings will get better as soon as he gets another job.

By: Towel

Towel — Thu, 03 May 2007 20:09:03 +0000

My sister,
All you have to do is to remain calm & pls dont talk back at him.I’m sure he’s fustrasted over taking that decision.You have to be patient.
Above all,continue to pray without ceasing and i believe that God will intervene in the situation.
Godbless

By: Tioluwalase chuksyy

Tioluwalase chuksyy — Thu, 03 May 2007 18:11:16 +0000

My sister it is well. You will do a lot of good if you dont talk much now. Pray pray and pray. I understand you. Your husband is definetely feelin guilty for his hasty decision and his lookin for where to vent his emotions. Who is but you? Just be calm

By: Dipo Akin Tepede

Dipo Akin Tepede — Thu, 03 May 2007 17:11:16 +0000

Please, continue from above;

Yesterday night i prayed and the scriptural verse that gave me the conviction about him was what i read unknowing to me. Please help me out.

The floor is opened for advice……………