Comments on: Ladies Only! What a Dilema? http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/ Empowering Nigerians Financially. Tue, 27 Jul 2010 06:56:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: toyin http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-43335 toyin Mon, 11 Jun 2007 17:07:44 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-43335 I just stumbled into this site now. and i am impressed. as for miss Rachel, let's be sincere. Every lady does what she wants to do. If u give in during pressure, u must have had a thot like that in mind. I am single and in my thirties but that doesnt mean i will drop my standards and disappoint God. There's nothing as good as waiting for His own time. and to think she even had a guy ready to marry her. Why spoil it and take up with a married man? it's a know fact dat married men will just use and dump u since they've promised "forever" to someone else. I just stumbled into this site now. and i am impressed. as for miss Rachel, let's be sincere. Every lady does what she wants to do. If u give in during pressure, u must have had a thot like that in mind.

I am single and in my thirties but that doesnt mean i will drop my standards and disappoint God. There's nothing as good as waiting for His own time. and to think she even had a guy ready to marry her. Why spoil it and take up with a married man? it's a know fact dat married men will just use and dump u since they've promised «forever» to someone else.

]]> By: the Life of a stranger called me http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-37714 the Life of a stranger called me Wed, 23 May 2007 18:25:11 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-37714 The Best Advice I can give her is to ask God to forgive her by saying a simple prayer and really meaning it. And sisnce God has forgiven her, she needs actively tell herself that she has no right beating herself down when she has repented and God has forgiven her. Since she has wronged her boyfriend, and wants an atmospher of honesty, she will have to tell him. And if he is relunctant to forgive her, then its really is his issue, as far as Im concerened, wse need to forgive one another expecially when its obvious the other is sorry for what they've done. I wish her the very best. The Best Advice I can give her is to ask God to forgive her by saying a simple prayer and really meaning it. And sisnce God has forgiven her, she needs actively tell herself that she has no right beating herself down when she has repented and God has forgiven her. Since she has wronged her boyfriend, and wants an atmospher of honesty, she will have to tell him. And if he is relunctant to forgive her, then its really is his issue, as far as Im concerened, wse need to forgive one another expecially when its obvious the other is sorry for what they've done. I wish her the very best.

]]> By: Genesis http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-37239 Genesis Tue, 22 May 2007 12:22:29 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-37239 Madam, Abeg, pls,ejo,biko,sanu,what else shd i use MOVE ON! You have made a mistake so what! why dwell on it ? I won,t advise to tell your boyfriend there is no need he is not God that you need his forgiveness to move on and feel cleansed. I dont believe in make a mole hill out of issues its already bad dont make it any worse. Just dont go back to him no MATTER what he comes back with, cos i know his types he would want a taste again and would come with another story dont even be found with him before works start or after work just IGNORE him except it has to do with work that concerns you directly and learn to deal with him PROFESSIONALLY.He would respect you for that even if he doesnt say it out. I have learnt over time that brooding over this kind of issues for too long can be devastating . So if you want to live long for your family,boyfriend, loved ones and of course your beautiful self' FORGET IT EVER HAPPENED. Madam,
Abeg, pls,ejo,biko,sanu,what else shd i use MOVE ON!
You have made a mistake so what! why dwell on it ?
I won,t advise to tell your boyfriend there is no need he is not God that you need his forgiveness to move on and feel cleansed.
I dont believe in make a mole hill out of issues its already bad dont make it any worse.
Just dont go back to him no MATTER what he comes back with, cos i know his types he would want a taste again and would come with another story dont even be found with him before works start or after work just IGNORE him except it has to do with work that concerns you directly and learn to deal with him PROFESSIONALLY.He would respect you for that even if he doesnt say it out.
I have learnt over time that brooding over this kind of issues for too long can be devastating .
So if you want to live long for your family,boyfriend, loved ones and of course your beautiful self' FORGET IT EVER HAPPENED.

]]> By: balogun olukayode http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-37209 balogun olukayode Tue, 22 May 2007 11:48:06 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-37209 women are so vulnerable. How I wish she had held up as she was certain to receive a visitation at that point but she gave up too easily. How do you console her? Well we are all human only God forgives. She should come clean to God and her boyfriend and this will serve as a test of true faith and commitment between them. What more can one add. women are so vulnerable.

How I wish she had held up as she was certain to receive a visitation at that point but she gave up too easily.

How do you console her?

Well we are all human only God forgives.

She should come clean to God and her boyfriend and this will serve as a test of true faith and commitment between them.

What more can one add.

]]> By: temi http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-35545 temi Thu, 17 May 2007 08:40:26 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-35545 Miss racheal should stop crying, and face the fact. The fact that you slept with another woman's husband, forget promotion or other things to follow, at least you enjoy some other things while it last. This should be a sort of lessons to other women who go flirting around. My advice for her is to ask of forgiveness, both from GOD and her boy freind becos no matter how you keep the secret from him, he will soon find out anyhow.Also she should try and forget what happened whish although is hard to forget, but she should take it as one of the lessons of life. Miss R should also move closer to God becos he is the answers to all prayers, God is a mercyful God, always willing to forgive and amend situations. Thanks dipo for this articule even if it is not you who wrote it, at least some one as learnt that all that glitters is not gold and no matter the situation one find him or her self, there is always a way out of no way.The simple way which has some fun in it always turns out to have venoms full in it,so be careful Miss racheal should stop crying, and face the fact. The fact that you slept with another woman's husband, forget promotion or other things to follow, at least you enjoy some other things while it last.
This should be a sort of lessons to other women who go flirting around.
My advice for her is to ask of forgiveness, both from GOD and her boy freind becos no matter how you keep the secret from him, he will soon find out anyhow.Also she should try and forget what happened whish although is hard to forget, but she should take it as one of the lessons of life. Miss R should also move closer to God becos he is the answers to all prayers, God is a mercyful God, always willing to forgive and amend situations.
Thanks dipo for this articule even if it is not you who wrote it, at least some one as learnt that all that glitters is not gold and no matter the situation one find him or her self, there is always a way out of no way.The simple way which has some fun in it always turns out to have venoms full in it,so be careful

]]> By: Refinedone http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-34868 Refinedone Tue, 15 May 2007 08:33:53 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-34868 ...She should just try her best to move on as someone already said. fear and shame can be a very powerful emotion and could be very destructive, but should be faced and not to run away from( no matter how hard) as it is said if it does not kill you it will only make you strong. She should not let him bully her ( that is A.S) show no fear and stand strong, but should not beat herself, yes she had made a very bad choice and must accept that, but MOVE ON.... we live to learn. ...She should just try her best to move on as someone already said.
fear and shame can be a very powerful emotion and could be very destructive, but should be faced and not to run away from( no matter how hard) as it is said if it does not kill you it will only make you strong.

She should not let him bully her ( that is A.S) show no fear and stand strong, but should not beat herself, yes she had made a very bad choice and must accept that, but MOVE ON.... we live to learn.

]]> By: ~Mimi~ http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-34851 ~Mimi~ Tue, 15 May 2007 07:38:31 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-34851 Sad.I was very sad when I was reading this.Why do people give up so easily?I know we are all human beings but I am just so sure,if she had waited just a bit longer and not looked for the easy way out with A.S, something better would have happened.No point crying over spilt milk, she needs to tell her boyfriend.Whether or not he will forgive her is his decision to make.she took some actions and therefore there will be reactions and she will need to take responsibilities for her actions.That is the grown-up thing to do.He has a right to know. If he says he cant stay,well there's nothing she can do except learn from the mistake and not make it with the next man God will send, because He will,He hasnt stopped making them yet. As for her job,she shouldnt look to anyone in that company to give her a 'leg up' because at the end of the day man will be man...unless God intends to use him to bless her. A.S, typical man, making promises of leaving his wife,this gets to me so much!!!!!!!!!!and like broken records stupid women still fall for that line over and over and over again!It isnt his fault, that is how he played his card, she was merely the one who got snared. If he starts harassing her however, she can either take it up with management or find another job.Hoping her CV is good. At the end of the day, we make mistakes, but when a day breaks, it is a new slate for a new beginning. May God guide her. Amen. Sad.I was very sad when I was reading this.Why do people give up so easily?I know we are all human beings but I am just so sure,if she had waited just a bit longer and not looked for the easy way out with A.S, something better would have happened.No point crying over spilt milk,
she needs to tell her boyfriend.Whether or not he will forgive her is his decision to make.she took some actions and therefore there will be reactions and she will need to take responsibilities for her actions.That is the grown-up thing to do.He has a right to know.
If he says he cant stay,well there's nothing she can do except learn from the mistake and not make it with the next man God will send, because He will,He hasnt stopped making them yet.

As for her job,she shouldnt look to anyone in that company to give her a 'leg up' because at the end of the day man will be man...unless God intends to use him to bless her. A.S, typical man, making promises of leaving his wife,this gets to me so much!!!!!!!!!!and like broken records stupid women still fall for that line over and over and over again!It isnt his fault, that is how he played his card, she was merely the one who got snared.

If he starts harassing her however, she can either take it up with management or find another job.Hoping her CV is good.

At the end of the day, we make mistakes, but when a day breaks, it is a new slate for a new beginning. May God guide her. Amen.

]]> By: Tioluwalase chuksyy http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-34824 Tioluwalase chuksyy Mon, 14 May 2007 18:37:57 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-34824 This will only teach you that not all the glitters is gold. This will only teach you that not all the glitters is gold.

]]> By: Tioluwalase chuksyy http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-34823 Tioluwalase chuksyy Mon, 14 May 2007 18:36:35 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-34823 As for the Bros, its terribly having to live a lie knowing that you broke the rule and broke the hedge. Though one there. I really dont know what to advise. Follow your heart. If the guy loves you if will forgive you. If you think otherwise pray about it. As for the Bros, its terribly having to live a lie knowing that you broke the rule and broke the hedge. Though one there. I really dont know what to advise. Follow your heart. If the guy loves you if will forgive you. If you think otherwise pray about it.

]]> By: Tioluwalase chuksyy http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-34821 Tioluwalase chuksyy Mon, 14 May 2007 18:32:34 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-34821 Hi. Does this sister needs help? Let her just forget about what happened and move. Fine no promotion but at least she still has d job. She must howeva be careful wit oga infact let her avoid him like a plague. Now dat he has tasted he's probbly disgusted Hi. Does this sister needs help? Let her just forget about what happened and move. Fine no promotion but at least she still has d job. She must howeva be careful wit oga infact let her avoid him like a plague. Now dat he has tasted he's probbly disgusted

]]> By: Azuka http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-34804 Azuka Mon, 14 May 2007 16:45:03 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-34804 Hmmm, that's tough. I'd say for one she hasn't been suspended or anything. She's just a has-been in A.S' life. However hard it sounds, she definitely can still move on with her life. I think keeping up her former demeanor of working hard should get her there -- she doesn't need A.S. for that. Speaking of her boyfriend, as they say, one day truth will out. If she's looking for a future with him, <b>and</b> thinks he can handle the news, sure she can spill her guts. I can't even contemplate any other options. Anyway it turns out, there's still hope. Hmmm, that's tough.

I'd say for one she hasn't been suspended or anything. She's just a has-been in A.S' life. However hard it sounds, she definitely can still move on with her life. I think keeping up her former demeanor of working hard should get her there -- she doesn't need A.S. for that.

Speaking of her boyfriend, as they say, one day truth will out. If she's looking for a future with him, and thinks he can handle the news, sure she can spill her guts. I can't even contemplate any other options.

Anyway it turns out, there's still hope.

]]> By: Dipo Akin Tepede http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/comment-page-1/#comment-34779 Dipo Akin Tepede Mon, 14 May 2007 15:08:16 +0000 http://www.dipotepede.org/2007/05/14/ladies-only-what-a-dilema/#comment-34779 FYI, This is not my write-up but a write-up of a lady/guy seeking for help for a friend. He/she actually posted it on the comment box of my former blog - <a href="http://dipotepede.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow"> Ready for Life</a>. Please, lets show her some love........ FYI,

This is not my write-up but a write-up of a lady/guy seeking for help for a friend. He/she actually posted it on the comment box of my former blog - Ready for Life.

Please, lets show her some love........

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