The easiest way to detect that your love is waxing cold towards your partner is tolerance; tolerance is simply going against your inner desire. It is actually worse than «hate» because in the case of «hate»; you have resolved your feelings towards your partner.  It's either you are hot or cold; white or black or love or hate because not taking a true position on how you feel towards the person you vowed to spend your life with  will definitely affect you ability to move forward in every aspect of your life. Tolerance is resistance to love; we are built in such a way that we create a thick line between love and hate especially towards those that we...

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I really don't enjoy driving at night and somehow I guess most people share my sentiment because according to a literature1, only 10% of road miles are driven in the dark and the strange part is that 48% of road fatalities occur at night: If fewer people use the road at night and approximately half of road accidents occur at night, then there must be something dire about driving at night. Reading further into the same literature1, I realize that at night our pupils dilate, and we become short-sighted, though glare, halos, and reduced peripheral vision all contribute to ocular tiredness. Another annoying part about driving at night, especially on a double lane that permits driving in opposite...

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Wow! I hope you guys have not missed me much because I have been totally engaged with one thing or the other since I got to China and I have not had the energy to update my blog. China has also banned facebook, youtube and the likes so I will posting my personal pics. Whenever, I get the chance during these business trips, to choose one day to visit a place of interest, I always vie for a historical religious center; 2 years ago when I went for a 5-day business trip to Rome and was giving a day to visit either the Coliseum or the Vatican City. I opted for the Vatican City without much thought. Why Religious...

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Gifts are a symbol of appreciation and in many ways show love towards the recipient; no matter how small the gift may be, it sparks an emotional euphoria in the atmosphere especially when received from someone you care about. In reality, the kind of gift you give says a lot about the way you feel towards the recipient; whether you listen carefully to their desires or you are insightful toward their needs. The story of Cain and Abel may be instructive enough towards giving gifts: According to the bible, the first sibling rivalry took place between Cain and Abel. Cain, a farmer, brought God a gift from his farm produce while Abel, a shepherd, brought God the fatty cuts...

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