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My first love; I remember her very vividly as the first day I saw her conjure the exact image of  her beautiful light toe to her neatly tucked-in hair bouncing across her shoulder with a regal grace. She was the only one visible amongst one thousand females in Amphi. My heart wandered on; it was beating so fast that I lost count of the rhythm. How I wish I could take a picture of myself then so that I can be sure I was the one with this erratic behavior. But as days go by, weeks draw near and months crawled on with my thoughts filled with her ravishing face, my heart longed to experience her presence and my eyes popped to her magnificent figure.  I hoped this feeling will never wane. Oh was I wrong!

Love is a subject that often attracts the greatest attention from the fully convicted atheist to the adept believer. It is a universal language that transcends all culture, race and country. It is actually the theme of the best selling movies to the best selling music. What ever the event is, if you integrate love, you will always be on point. I wonder if that is why I am writing this article to attract you to read it but I guess not. This is because it is a very difficult subject to broach. I actually don’t like writing about love may be because it has become very complicated or it is difficult to define but I like to improve the lives of my fellow humans so was I moved when people are affected by this love syndrome experienced in relationships especially between man and woman ( apologies to gays).

Here is a story, to set you on;Yinka – a female – is confused about her 3 months relationship. She is not sure of the future because Emeka seems to be acting inconsistently. He gives excuses whenever she asked him over to her apartment and she is scared if there is any future between the both of them. She sees all the barriers ahead of her; he is not from the same ethnic group; he likes partying; he likes alcohol; he talks of not settling down soon. This thought has almost consumed her that she decided to talk to someone to lighten this burden weighing on her. Well she talked to me and below describes our conversation; which she permitted me to print, hope it helps you;